How To Help An Abused Child


There are several forms of abuse that a child may be subjected to. According to licensed psychotherapist Annie Wright, “Any kind of treatment that intentionally or unintentionally undermines and puts at risk a child’s health, welfare, or dignity is, in my professional opinion, a kind of abuse.” Each type may have a particular effect on the mental health of the person involved, which is why it is essential to be careful when dealing with a child who has a history of abuse. You must be mindful of all your actions and words so that you can avoid triggering some factors that can worsen the situation of the abused individual. At the same time, you must know how to act correctly to ensure that you can find ways on how to help the said unwilling victim.

In this article, we are going to provide you with a list of ideas on how to help a young individual who has already become a victim of emotional, physical or psychological abuse. Here are the guidelines to observe:

Be Sensitive

As early as this point, it is essential to emphasize the fact that you a child abuse victim can be easily offended, which is why you need to be extra careful in what you will do and say. Be sensitive enough to remember the child’s needs so that you can have a better understanding of what is happening. Never make any assumptions because you might get it wrong.


Offer Guidance And Assistance

Make sure to assure the child that you are willing to support him in any way possible. Let him know that you are available for any discussion or conversation. Make the individual feel that you do not have any reservations or ill motives in extending your help. Remember that this person may not be trusted, which is you must exert more efforts to make them believe that you are a right person.

Avoid Asking Too Many Questions

Take note that the said child may suffer from a traumatic experience because of the abuse that he received from his parents or others. For this reason, it is imperative on your part to be patient in waiting for him to open up. Do not rush the child as it can trigger some hurtful memories to come back in his life. Never force him to speak up as it may lead to some other serious troubles. According to Fran Walfish, PsyD, “Kids who’ve been abused may become mute, or refuse to speak.”

Call Authorities

According to Catherine McCall, LMFT, “Taking that next step – reporting the abuse – frightens many people.” If you think that the guardians or the parents of a child continue to abuse him in any manner, be sure to get in touch with the proper authorities as soon as possible. Take note that you need to act fast to prevent any aggression or threat that may come from the abusive individual. If possible, you can already interfere as long as it is for the promotion of the welfare or well-being of the child.



Dealing with an individual who has a rough past can be challenging. You need to take into consideration several factors to ensure that you will not say or do anything that can offend the child involved. Feel free to get help from some adults who might be willing to support an individual with no parents or relatives.

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