As parents, our number one priority at this time of the pandemic is to keep our family and children safe from the Coronavirus. That is why we are very eager to remind them of the necessary things they have to do concerning proper measures, such as social distancing and frequent hand washing. But even though we are fully supportive in caring for their safety, this whole situation can still affect their emotional and mental state. Here is how this COVID-19 outbreak is upsetting my children.
Kids Miss Being Socially Active
Understandably, it is essential to keep away from people at this time of the pandemic. Since the virus can quickly spread through close contact, it is vital to practice social distancing. With that, my kids have to stay at home. But the prolonged period of home quarantine makes them miss being socially active. It upsets them to think that it has been more than a month that they do not go to school. My kids miss their teachers and our neighbors. It hurts them more than anything, not to be with their friends. They are eager to go out and go back to the way things were. They want to play outside and spend time exploring nature again.
Kids Get Easily Bored
Honestly, since this lockdown, I know a lot of us already tried to make a couple of lists to keep our children out from boredom. Perhaps you already tried changing the routine over and over again only to make your kids excited about home activities. But unfortunately, as every day passes by and no signs to the end of the virus, children get easily bored. That even if they once like the activities you prepared, they are now finding it a waste of time. There is this one time; my kids look so physically drained even though there is nothing much they do around the house.
Kids Feel Depressed
At an unfortunate time like this, no one can tell us what to feel and whatnot. All of us only understand at this moment is sadness. There is an abundant feeling of loneliness and emptiness due to the situation’s uncertainties. As for my kids, they find the situation very depressing. They have these mixed emotions on whether to stay positive for survival or allow negativity to sets in. I can’t blame the kids, though. I also feel the same way. However, their emotions and mental stability are more vulnerable at this stage. That even though you encouraged them to think that everything is going to be okay, they somehow understand that it will take time for that.
Kids Embrace Isolation
We understand the importance of home quarantine protocol. That is the only way we can flatten the curve and slow down the spread of the Coronavirus. However, the limitations we have, particularly in the number of people we have to allow in our parameter, bring us to the feeling of isolation. With that, my kids are taking social distancing and home quarantine negatively. I tried explaining that this situation is temporary, though. However, the more the restrictions from the things they can do grow, the more they feel alone. It upsets them to know that there is nothing they can contribute to addressing the situation.
Sadly, my children are now experiencing emotional and mental instability. And as a parent, I can’t stand to see them suffer in this unfortunate situation. But again, there is nothing I can do as well. I am also bound to follow strict protocols, the same as every people in the world. I just hope and pray that this could end soon.